Question: I’m afraid if I finally forgive, will I be vulnerable to be hurt again?
Answer: Yes, I totally get it. I used to think the same thing. If I close my heart then no one can ever hurt me… right? Well when we close our heart, we chop off our connection to our intuition, to our instinct, our gut reactions, our capacity to see red flags. We become robots over analyzing everything in our minds, overthinking, second guessing, dissolving our confidence, doubting our capacity to trust ourselves, increasing our search for evidence to blame others and situations…
Yes, it’s a sucky life to live that way, one of fear, terror and panic if we were willing to slow down and really feel what happens when we let go.
There is a powerful Guided Mediation I created in both my men’s and women’s memberships… Letting Go… www.gethertosayyes.com/sayyes for men… and www.redefiningsexuality.com for women… it’s based on a mediation given to me from Ruby Bedi where she asked me to let go of all these horses. Just last night a private client from Alabama told me he thought this was foo foo when I taught it to him on a Full Day Intensive, but now having returned to his home town, he uses it daily and it’s his connection to peace and power.
So basically imagine you have all these reigns to horses of all the people you haven’t forgiven. And all these great relationships and experiences are passing you by… you can’t receive them because you’re holding onto the horses… and so in the guided mediation I ask you to let them go. This is super intense. When I did it, I mean REALLY did it, I cried and freaked out… I really thought I would die, get ‘hurt again’ as you said.
Yet what I noticed is that instead after the panic subsided, I felt whole, knowing, perceiving, intuitive, clear, calmly powerful. Safe. At peace.
From that space of finally letting go you also have access to the lessons of that experience… I can help you to claim and implement these lessons into your very being, your very life should you join the Live calls every other week in the Membership… and once we integrate the lessons into your essence… you may be hurt again, for people are human, not robots… but YOU will never suffer again, and each time bounce back stronger, wiser and more amazing than the time before.
Know you are loved,